I read a statement in a book called, The DNA of Prosperous People recently which solidified what I already knew. The author, Rickey Johnson states, “No one achieves greatness by himself or herself. A smart businessperson will search for a teacher or someone to provide the steps to achieving success.”
I was taught this concept quite a while ago, but I wanted to encourage you to do the same. Mentors are such important players for our individual success. Not only do they help us, but they give us an opportunity to potentially help them. Serving others is an important part of why you’re here on Earth.
Personally, I ask for references and pursue new contacts via an introduction from a friend or a simple email straight to the person I’d like to meet, asking for an informational interview on the phone. Recently, that has led me to have lunch with businesspeople in my intended field who are excited to generously dole out advice and lead me to others.
To every phone call or lunch meeting, I come armed with a series of questions. Before any meeting, I spend some time looking these individuals up on LinkedIn, university databases and anything else I can come up with from a Google search. I prepare some questions to show that I’ve been thoughtful and intentional with their time. I also try to direct the conversation to minimize any awkward silences.
These are the questions I ask:
“What steps did you take in order to achieve your goals / secure your position in ___ company?”
“What skill set do you wish you would have developed before starting your job?”
“What contributed most to your success?”
“What industry groups/ networks are you involved in? How have they helped you?”
If the meeting leads to a great connection and friendship, I put these people in a database to keep my contacts organized for future purposes. I lead others to them and I lead them to others whom they might need in the future.
Drawing wisdom and experience from others is an important task. Expanding your network is another key to your success. If nothing else, you have another friend (and that is not to be understated). It’s important to have an intelligent group of people surrounding you who can help you, and most importantly, who YOU can help.